Archive for Life changes

Wishing For A New Bedroom

I recently had the honor of being asked by the Make A Wish Foundation to design a new bedroom for a teenage girl named Cyrel who lives with severe disabilities.  We began by determining how her room would function with the dual goals of creating an enchanting bedroom as well as an inviting space where family and friends could gather with Cyrel.

The  fresh color palate (Peony Pink and Wales Green by Benjamin Moore) was inspired by the fabric in the bespoke curtains chosen to create a feeling of lightheartedness.  A hip new graphic patterned recliner donated by Belfort Furniture, and a new aubergine love seat helps people visit in comfort.  A new  eco-friendly bamboo floor donated by Lumber Liquidators adds to the feeling of warmth in the space.

The entry to her room was hand stenciled, inviting  Cyrel and her visitors into this special new space of her own.

Next we considered what kinds of equipment would enhance Cyrel’s life experience.  A smart TV was installed over her bed on a flexible mounting arm donated by Omnimount that swivels, raises, lowers and tilts for viewing in all kinds of positions.  A raised cart was built by master woodworker, Jon Haberman and his apprentice Laurent Diot that houses a large beanbag chair.  This device rolls and allows Cyrel to be in her most comfortable position while also at eye level with folks who are in the room with her.

 The third factor in the design process considered how to reflect and enhance Cyrel’s adolescent developmental stage of life.  The task of understanding oneself in relation to others prompted a wall of pictures showing Cyrel with family and friends from her specialized school. (Not pictured for privacy reasons).  A myriad of other features were added to enhance Cyrel’s sensory experiences and reflect a teen sensibility.   A light producing speaker system creates not only a varied auditory IMG_2260experience but a fun visual experience as does a lava lamp and the custom made overhead light fixture.  Other senses are stimulated by scrumptiously textured blankets, a touch friendly fiber optic lamp, scent diffusers and scented hand lotions, Girl Scout Cookie flavored chapsticks, and an entire shelf of thoughtfully selected and donated nail polish. I go back and forth – is it nail polish or is it art?

It has been an honor to be able to work on this project with Cyrel and her family.  Experiencing their strength and the generosity of so many people who contributed their time, or their products has been profoundly moving.  My many thanks go to  Make A Wish of The Mid- Atlantic for this  amazing opportunity.  To learn more about the ways they enhance the lives of children and families click here.

Design for Change: Vacation Memories

It is so hard to say good-bye to vacation and leave behind sensations in which you reveled.  Why not bring some pieces home with you to invoke the memories and call up feelings that you experienced?  My dear friend Pam has several ways in which she does this.   On her kitchen counter stands a tall vase of stones collected on a recent trip to the Greek Islands.  This stylish accent conjures up the feeling of warm sand sifting through her fingers.

Design For Change: Vacation Memories at HomeShe also collects small water colors (sometime inexpensive cards) from places she has traveled.  Framed at home in her powder room they create a charming wall of stories fondly remembered.

I am particularly jealous of her printers box filled with small trinkets from all over the world. Design for Change: Vacation Treasures on Display (Perhaps because she and our friend Linda have such a good time picking these things out.)  I keep thinking I am too late to get in on this but of course it is never too late to shore up memories.

I often think of memory as existing in layers;  usually the important and current stuff stays on the top, easily accessible.  As their urgency lessens they drift down to be replaced by other more important events.  It becomes easy for the amazingly evocative Tango performance in Buenos Aires that truly thrilled you to slide further and further out of mind.  Tangible reminders such as tiny tango shoes can pull these special memories back to the surface and allow us to delight in them once more.

 

My suggestion; bring back something real, an actual souvenir ( French for “a remembrance”)  a rock, a shell, a picture, and put it someplace where you will see it often.  When passing by give yourself a few seconds to remember, and re-experience the vacation sensation.

Empty Nest Blues? Try Orange For a Sunny New Outlook

New colors, fresh upholstery, and new drapes can all put a fresh new perspective on one’s personal space and outlook. Of course this does not mean that one has to do away with favorite old furniture, artifacts, habits, etc. But sometimes it is good to shake things up a bit. For some this might mean moving to a new home. For others, introducing a fresh decor may do the trick. Read More→

Children + Divorce = That Topsy Turvy Feeling

When faced with their parent’s divorcing most children feel a frightening lack of control.  Of course they need lots of reassurance about how this was a grown-up decision having nothing to do with how much both parents love them.

One good idea is to find ways in which children can exert a bit of control over the situation.  Read More→